Dating has always been confusing for men, but it’s even more difficult in the modern world. Should you text or does she expect you to call? What’s a good type of date today? Do people prefer getting outside and hiking or is going out for coffee or drinks more appropriate? Even though there seems to be more nuance into how things are done today, you’ll find that there are certain dating rules that should always be followed.

Let’s get a closer look at some of the most important you’ll want to keep in mind. You’ll find that these tend to apply whether it’s the first date or the hundred and first.

Be Genuine and Personable

You always want to come across as being honest and genuine with your date. Have topics of conversation ready to go, as well as some fun and appropriate stories to tell. Of course, you also have to be ready to listen, as your date will probably have stories of their own. Be friendly and don’t take up too much of the conversation yourself. It should be a give and take even in the early days of dating.

Look Your Best

You need to put in a little bit of prep time when you are going out on a date. You probably don’t need a tuxedo, but you should dress nicely and appropriately for the activity. Check to make sure your nails are trimmed and clean, take a shower, add deodorant, and make sure your clothes are clean and in good condition.

Exude Confidence

When you meet your date and throughout the date, you want to appear confident, as it is more attractive than looking like you are uneasy. If you aren’t confident by nature, you might have to build yourself up a bit before the date, but it’s worth it.

Be Kind and Polite

However, you have to remember that there is a fine line between confident and cocky. If you come across as cocky, it strays into the territory of being unattractive. Remember to be nice not only to your date but to everyone you come into contact with. If you are rude to the waiter, your date is going to remember that, and you won’t come off well.

Take Initiative, But Be Willing to Change Plans

You should always have a plan for where you will go and what you will do for your date. This way, you aren’t asking one another what you should go and do. However, you need to be willing to change plans if your date doesn’t feel comfortable with certain activities. For example, going out on a hike in the middle of nowhere on a first date is not a good idea because your date doesn’t know you or your intentions.

Don’t Talk About Exes

There are certain topics that you shouldn’t bring up during a date. Talking about your exes, whether it’s good or bad, is one of them. Keep the topics of conversation fun and lighthearted without dredging up past relationships.

Make Sure She Gets Home Safe

Always make sure your date gets home safe. Whether it’s ensuring she gets into a cab or Uber, or you walk her to the door, you want to show that you care about her safety. You could even ask her to text you that she got home okay if you aren’t taking her to her house.

These are some of the rules for dating you’ll want to have in mind when you are putting yourself out there. As you can see, these rules are timeless and should work well for you.

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